Twitter Influencer reveals why men should place their wife above their mother
According to a Nigerian Twitter influencer, a man who puts his mother before his wife is not prepared for a successful marriage.
According to the NFT Guru known as Drey, a man’s wife is more important, and he advised men to make sure they explained this to their mother in plain terms.
In addition, he advised men not to let their mothers live with them, saying they should only be allowed to visit occasionally. He made this statement via the microblogging platform.
Drey’s tweet, which read in part, provoked responses.
Your wife is more important than your mother and should be at the apex of your priority chain. You can beat about the bush about it, I chose to be blunt about this.
If you think otherwise, no matter your age you are not prepared for marriage. Always make this clear. Define these positions openly and directly to your mother to avoid unnecessary hiccups in the future. Trust your mom to understand. It doesn’t mean you stopped loving her. Clearly defining these things and setting boundaries can save a lot!
Also, let your mother stay in her house if you are not running an extended family like the royals. She can visit, but her stay shouldn’t be too long enough to cause friction except it is extremely necessary. I prefer you and your wife to do the visiting and be brief.
Love your mom as a child should love his mother, but don’t let it interrupt your marriage negatively. I have witnessed mothers ruin homes because they want to own their baby boys for life. Or better still don’t get married. If you have to, do it right!“
